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Six years ago, I couldn’t get a real date to save my life.
I probably wouldn't be attracted to that, as shallow as it sounds. Personality (among other things) matters more than looks. Also, if they end up actually being committed to a long-term relationship, you can just work out together." - Adrianna E. "I don't think I would date a person who didn't want to be active. If he's unhealthy and lazy, absolutely not." - Quinn E.
Re: c) — your looks have everything to do with how a guy feels about you. Men are far more visually driven than women for all kinds of anthropological, biological and cultural reasons. Yes, there are times when men fall in love with a woman who is completely not his physical type because her beautiful soul shined so brightly that it blinded him to her overt physical shortcomings. [I then added a couple full-body shots to my profile, and thanked him for the tip. You’re lonely and you know very well that few men like very heavy women.
But that is not likely to happen when his first impression is that you are a liar who wasted his perfectly good happy hour with your manipulation. I sympathize with women who find it hard to meet men — even online — for this reason.
Believe it or not, a lot of guys have asked us the same question in this scenario: If these ladies were single, would they even consider going out with a guy who's not exactly on her fitness level? It feels like there's less competition for 'em." - Alyssa M. "Probably not now, but maybe when I'm older." - Riley G. "It would definitely depend on how bad we're talking. I also think you can have a better relationship if you both head to the gym together and have the same mindset about excercise and eating right." - Elizabeth F. "I think it's great if guys work out, but that's not a top priority as long as they're not fat." - Heather F. "Depends, but I typically prefer someone who has the same interests and motivation in staying in shape." - Melissa C. "Truthfully, I'm really attracted to guys who put in gym time and have the body to prove it.
Or do gym goddesses demand an equally fit dude with mountain-sized shoulders and bulging biceps? But when she's looking for a partner—not just a one-night fling—do her standards and desires change? Read to see how 20 real women feel about dating a guy who's in worse shape and maybe even "below their league," who they've been with in the past, and the type of guy they're looking for in the future. "Give me a man who adores the crap out of me and I won't think twice about whether his body fat ratio is better than mine." - Lianne F. I've always been more attracted to a lean body type, but that doesn't always mean they're in the best shape. I don't want him to be too much out of shape, though. But that doesn't mean shredded abs and muscles coming out of his ears." - Erica G. "I've been with guys all across the spectrum: skinny guys, super-shredded guys, ones in between. If he's willing to get fit with me, then yes." - Anna F.